Is with someone you love better than a one night stand? Why?

I ask this as a recent graduate of my virginity. Until two nights ago i was a 21 year old very frustrated and angry virgin. Thankfully i was in Frankfurt germany where prostitution is legal and regulated; scared that at this rate id end up a 40 yr old virgin, and given the fact women seem to be repulsed by me, i decided to go to a prostitute. It was great to be with a woman, even if i had to pay her; all other woman have treated me bad and rejected me leaving me sad and lonely...HOWEVER, and this is the question im asking, there seemed to be something missing, essentially all i did was have , do a little touching and that's it; it was over in 15 min. No kissing, nor , no hugging, but the screwing was great. I always hear people say that with a person you love is great, but i don't know why, obviously you can do more than what i did, but love is just an emotion, it adds nothing physical does it? As a looser who could barely loose his virginity, and will likely have to stick to hookers to get , i was seriously wondering, IS better with some one in love? I'm sure ill never find out, so i figured id ask from people who aren't repulsive like me. So is it better? Why?